You're a Slut and Selfish Too!

"But but...why can't I talk about how cute my dress is all night? Or have meaningless sex while I look for a husband? This dress was expensive, you know!"

I discovered article # 632 on why us women aren't married today!

Being a slut and selfish are the main reasons we aren't married too.

Well.

Those are two of the reasons listed in the article Why You're Not Married.

I must say though!

I agree those are two of the main reasons many of us aren't married today.

If we can't even commit to getting to know one person, because another person caught our eye a split second later...how do we expect to settle down with anyone? When we're still searching for the BBD (Bigger Better Deal). Or what about if we're too busy between the sheets with Right Now Randy? How can one expect to meet....or have time to meet Here to Stay Stanley? Serious.

What the author said about a woman getting attached to man she is sleeping with is so true too! A man could act and look equivalent to a damn obnoxious hairy gorilla and a woman would still bond with him through sex...human nature. Women are infamous for dating 3s when they are 9s and 10s for that reason alone. Not that dating a 3 is such a bad idea these days. 3s usually have more potential and character than most 10s do anyway.

There were a few valid points in that article about being selfish too. We are so self absorbed that we obsess over ourselves...leaving little room for others. We do put our careers first...then look around in confusion, because we don't know why we're single or when our potential mates disappeared? We want others to revolve around us, instead of revolving around each other. We have a list of demands that we want our mates to meet, yet we are reluctant to give into their demands. We get so caught up in thinking about what our mates can do for us, we don't consider what we can even offer them...if we have anything to offer.

No one wants to have a one-sided conversation with a partner who talks about thyself all day long. Or listen to them complain about their issues all the time. Or talk about what they wore from head to toe in full detail. Or even worse, how awesome they looked wearing it.

This type of behavior isn't conducive to marriage. Or to even helping us make healthy connections with each other.

What I hate the most about this truthful article?

How it focuses in on women. When this should really be directed to both men and women. These are issues once again that we all encounter as single people. Of course....women think about getting married more than men.

But, please believe! 

There are men out there wondering why their asses are still single too. These are the same ones who blame being single on the crazy and deceitful women they encounter...or the right time never presenting itself....or their busy work schedules....with never a thought that the reason they are really single is because of them.

What we should take from this article? Taking a closer look in the mirror is a must, because our own behavior and actions could be the cause of many of our concerns....aside from being single or unmarried.