Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Beauty Pride vs. Brains Pride

"L.A. takes more pride in their appearance, and New York more pride in their intelligence."



Patti Stanger from the reality show The Millionaire Matchmaker made this statement with a look of disgust on her face during an interview with Andy Cohen on Watch What Happens Live.

Her statement was prompted by a viewer's question: "Patti, do you think L.A. people are more attractive than New York people?"

So, her answer to this question made me wonder. What do we value more important: beauty or brains?

The answer for 'me' is both! Because I take pride in my intelligence and appearance, and I expect my mate to do the same. It is fair to pick them both. Isn't it? Or am I wrong because I should have said intelligence?

Her entire statement is whack. And it really fucks me up! Like I must be out of mind for having equal pride in my intelligence and physical appearance. When in reality, we should have more pride in our intelligence than our appearance...beauty is not suppose to define you, your character is suppose to define you.
If you have not seen The Millionaire Matchmaker or Watch What Happens Live on the Bravo channel, then I suggest you go here: http://www.bravotv.com/the-millionaire-matchmaker and here http://www.bravotv.com/watch-what-happens-live because you are missing out on the crazy!

If you viewed the show then you know Patti Stanger is superficial. So, her statement makes complete sense in her mind. It has to make sense because anyone who thinks a makeover (that includes a new hair style, tan, and new clothing) will get them married is superficial. The only thing a facade can do is attract your attention, and briefly. The one-hour therapy sessions Patti Stanger provides for her clients are pointless as well. There is no way in hell that one session of therapy before their first date is going to reverse years of insecurities and bad dating habits.

Please allow me to bash the members on the show for a few seconds because she has a lot morons trying to find love!

First point to make here, if you are a millionaire and you do not want anyone to use you for your money. Do not go to a dating service called The Millionaire's Club to find a wife. You instantly become a target for gold diggers around the country with a beating pulse and Frequent Flyer miles to meet your stupid ass! Second point, Patti will not only make you discuss the business you are in, but what your net worth is as well. It's kind of hard to be incognito when you put your business out there. Going on her show is just plain stupid. Third point to consider, if you want someone to love you for you. Patti cannot help you with this because you became a member of her club, and helped her label you a millionaire. And clearly, there is nothing more to you than just a title. Fourth point to ponder, if you don't want to spend any money. Patti's club is the wrong one for you. Because if you take your date out on a cheap one or live in a hell hole to to prove how 'down-to-earth' and humble you are, she will not only throw your ass out of her club but embarrass you on national television too. Oh, and we will all laugh at you. The truth: Patti is a Queen B but you are a silly ass rabbit!

Now.

If you are on her show to promote your business, then you aren't such a moron after all. I am not mad at you, please proceed!

But yes, Patti Stanger is a bitch. She's an even smarter business woman though. I will not hate or bash on her for making a business out of playing tricks on the shallow men and women: the superficials and the gold diggers.

I think Patti knows that a majority of her clients won't find their dream mate. She knows they aren't just searching for a man or woman with supermodel looks and good qualities. They are looking for a mate that does not exist because their expectations are a bit insane in the membrane.

Besides that fact? Patti could care less shit!

She already got paid in full, right before she set them up on dates with their 'type' and then booted their ass out of her club.

She experienced no loss.

She is the type of player her clients can only hope to be one day.

And what can we say to every move she has made thus far except, "Play on, Player!"

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